tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post138069685467572354..comments2008-11-19T12:03:37.291-05:00Blu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321BluJewel@comcast.netBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-35109820998684703492008-11-19T12:03:00.000-05:002008-11-19T12:03:00.000-05:00it seems ppl would much rather be negative then positive. these are the ppl i slowly begin to eliminate frm my circle.<BR/><BR/>-kbkarrie b.http://www.blogger.com/profile/07681132765587874493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-17911953578565935872008-11-18T09:43:00.000-05:002008-11-18T09:43:00.000-05:00A few degrees away from the discussion, but you and your readers may be entertained by this:<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://onyxinvestments.blogspot.com/2008/11/she-is-just-not-that-into-you.html" REL="nofollow">She is Just Not That Into You</A>Kofi Bofahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06525557832900245785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-81260904828388343442008-11-17T11:07:00.000-05:002008-11-17T11:07:00.000-05:00I guess I just have no energy for foolishness any more. I toss up the deuces and say, "Get at me when you can be grown." If they never do, it's their loss. <BR/><BR/>Love you, sis!!BZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17132161394744989630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-2726125942954252812008-11-14T14:42:00.000-05:002008-11-14T14:42:00.000-05:00cut his ass loose. went through the same thing and life is too short for mental games.nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06971419502034051817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-34527567212504625432008-11-12T16:08:00.000-05:002008-11-12T16:08:00.000-05:00totally unaffected...when you can see that its passive-aggressive and a fible attempt...you just ignore...laugh to yourself and brush it off...T.C.http://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-10471164171288667042008-11-12T12:21:00.000-05:002008-11-12T12:21:00.000-05:00Life is 2 short for controlling people. Sadly, the above scenario years ago would have been me. I would of called, "guilt ridden" and would have apologized for something I did not do...<BR/><BR/>I have stared listening to Alicia Keys, "A woman's worth." ..and found my worthiriegalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17624900201571871081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-996771739288249122008-11-11T16:39:00.000-05:002008-11-11T16:39:00.000-05:00I would not be affected I would just keep it moving. I don't let stuff like that phase medessexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12116249563620887215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-73024881050238931552008-11-11T10:28:00.000-05:002008-11-11T10:28:00.000-05:00@darius - Amen bruh; amen! <BR/><BR/>@slish - you know what? you're just too damn much. the sad part is that you're probably right, but he didn't need to come out his dyam face like that. <BR/><BR/>love!Blu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-54978261105650629662008-11-10T19:47:00.000-05:002008-11-10T19:47:00.000-05:00All this talk talk talk...Sounds like the both of you need to BONE it OUUUUUUT...Just get primal! Rip each others clothes off and do some heavy breathing...That's why ole boy was so upset...Probably backed up and needed a good ole dose of Bluey. When he couldn't get it his swollen nuts caused him to have a HISSY fit...BONE IT OOOOOOUT.....lolMr.Slishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00494177480657519038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-87059322934898799692008-11-10T18:10:00.000-05:002008-11-10T18:10:00.000-05:00I would do what you're doing...go on and not really be affected by it. Life is too shore and God is way too good!Darius T. Williamshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06225878800405121386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-38762332017119638742008-11-10T17:29:00.000-05:002008-11-10T17:29:00.000-05:00@ruthibelle - amen!<BR/><BR/>@believer - thank you for your continued support and your words of wisdom. And you're right, girlfriend relationships often need scrutiny too. In this case, I've divested and while he's not completely out the picture, he's certainly in a special category.<BR/><BR/>@miz - lady, how many times am I going to be reminded that we truly are twin souls. I, too, tend to retreat and want to fall back at the sign of drama. Disassociation is easy for me, but I was trying not to fall into those old habits and that's why he actually lasted as long as he did. The only reason why I even entertained his foolish phone conversation where he tried to go off was because I knew I was absolutely right and there was no way he was going to pawn his ish off on me. Nah, I'm not that girl anymore. I've come a long way with relationships and I refuse; repeat; refuse to train a man to treat me bad.<BR/><BR/>Love!Blu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-66720082070106937872008-11-10T15:36:00.000-05:002008-11-10T15:36:00.000-05:00Wow, i really hate this kind of thing...and to be honest, unless i was really into a relationship with this person, the me (where i'm at now) will disconnect. I know, not a good thing. In fact, DUDE (the guy i'm talking to) always say at the the first sight of trouble i duck and run...(sidebar- can't help it...been thru some ish in the last 2 years that make me run)...but he has also enlightened me to the fact that some things need to be discussed, and some things need to be left alone. I am getting better dealing with issues, controversy, but i'm not all there yet...i don't like to be angry, can't stand to argue, so i walk, it's easy, hurts a bit and sooner or later i'll get over it, but what i will not do is subject myself to ill-treatment for any length of time.Mizrepresenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02992754393960138393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-83381252718975061222008-11-10T12:53:00.000-05:002008-11-10T12:53:00.000-05:00This is just another situation where the message is loud and clear, "take inventory and reassess the relationship."<BR/><BR/>Life is too short and you're a valued person. Don't stand for being an option rather than the priority you should be. This goes for girlfriend relationships too! It's not easy accepting that folk are not invested the same in a relationship. <BR/><BR/>Do you and don’t stress, and please keep it movin’. Next!Believer 1964http://www.blogger.com/profile/09957900267165698972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-13360850749937486082008-11-09T23:22:00.000-05:002008-11-09T23:22:00.000-05:00i'd be completely unaffected...Ruthibellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14478877906463303463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-57176748368478828082008-11-09T20:58:00.000-05:002008-11-09T20:58:00.000-05:00Completely agree with your assessment Keith and that's actually how I'm handling the situation. I'm sure he was pretty confused when he called and didn't get any attitude from me. Why waste good time being negative right? Aside from being really busy, I'm doing well. Hope all is well with you too. Hoping to swing by your spot to catch up.<BR/><BR/>Love!Blu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-80475290414229948202008-11-09T19:07:00.000-05:002008-11-09T19:07:00.000-05:00I would go on with my day on a business as usual basis and act as if nothing happened.. This person is using passive -aggressive tactics and the only way to counter act them is by ignoring them..This frustrates the person using them.<BR/><BR/>How have you been doing Blu?Keithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17325582825431855883noreply@blogger.com