tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post4976208979795375197..comments2023-10-28T09:42:58.346-04:00Comments on iS iT jUsT mE?: Expectations vs RealityBlu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-21074759101209880302007-03-27T12:54:00.000-04:002007-03-27T12:54:00.000-04:00It is purely fate that I have come across your blo...It is purely fate that I have come across your blog. My friend Alana and I have been talking of late about how the two of us are people-pleasers. We've always put others first and never set aside any time for ourselves. We're burned out and now find ourselves constantly calling each other to make sure the other one is all right. Life is so tough right now and it's good to know that there are people out there that feel the same way. It helps to know we're not alone on this crazy path called life. With love, PaulPaulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10399838163858259621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-20193839237956589052007-02-12T19:51:00.000-05:002007-02-12T19:51:00.000-05:00Awesome point and oh so true! I just must borrow ...Awesome point and oh so true! I just must borrow this post, with credit to you of course. Hope you don't mind. (BTW - I'm here from Wide Lawns).No Mashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12937153685615919457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-28096361915676429622007-02-06T22:33:00.000-05:002007-02-06T22:33:00.000-05:00I'm good to people simply because I want to. I don...I'm good to people simply because I want to. I don't ask for anything in return, but on the rare occassion that I happen to need something, it hurts to be left standing on the limb alone. But such is life. I haven't stopped being a giving person because of that, but it does get frustrating sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-36854800379900650232007-02-06T09:57:00.000-05:002007-02-06T09:57:00.000-05:00I agree with ya on this one!! I recently discover...I agree with ya on this one!! I recently discovered that people tend to take advantage of my kindess and I was so surprised that I didn't realize it until someone else pointed it out!! I guess I had my own way of rationalizing what was happening to me. But I have to learn how not to be taken advantage of by people. I'm like you. I'd do just about anything for anyone without expecting anything in return. That's how I was raised to be. That's how my Granny was, and I always wanted to be like my Granny. I love doing things for others. But I guess you have to be wise when doing things for other to make sure that you're not being taken advantage of. <br /><br />Good post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-40775715392308869602007-02-05T11:46:00.000-05:002007-02-05T11:46:00.000-05:00I tell ya...I had to say this to myself the other ...I tell ya...I had to say this to myself the other day when someone pissed me off..just cause I care about them doesn't mean that they are gonna care about me..life goes on....LOLMs.Honeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16741794749164112555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-85560682991925194012007-02-04T20:20:00.000-05:002007-02-04T20:20:00.000-05:00"As you would men do unto you, do unto men." But ..."As you would men do unto you, do unto men." But sometimes I hate getting punked (smile).<br /><br />Great post.Debo Bluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17870178701012520680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-74420174280766392572007-02-04T04:18:00.000-05:002007-02-04T04:18:00.000-05:00My friend said something interesting today, "Be go...My friend said something interesting today, "Be good regardless of others because you're doing it for you."<br /><br />Thanks for the confirmation!Believerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09957900267165698972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-59083431213738290072007-02-04T00:41:00.000-05:002007-02-04T00:41:00.000-05:00i know what you mean. i like doing nice things for...i know what you mean. i like doing nice things for people. sometimes i get the niceness return. but i dont expect it. i hate however, when they think because you are willing to do this for them, that you will always do that for them. i draw the line there. let me offer, dont demand.josiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05656448463186606010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-11817139702637431722007-02-02T16:14:00.000-05:002007-02-02T16:14:00.000-05:00As always, I come to your spot and read something ...As always, I come to your spot and read something that has been on my mind...you are right, all you can strive to be is the BEST you, that you can possibly be! You can't expect anything in return, or that others will treat you the same, because that sets you up for disappointment, just be proud and keep it movingT.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-62460282647595587112007-02-02T15:54:00.000-05:002007-02-02T15:54:00.000-05:00And there you have it folks, listen to the woman.And there you have it folks, listen to the woman.Bananashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03176853633460981781noreply@blogger.com