tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post56702546087840102..comments2023-10-28T09:42:58.346-04:00Comments on iS iT jUsT mE?: dEaL bReAkErSBlu Jewelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-69648183576870140312007-11-13T08:31:00.000-05:002007-11-13T08:31:00.000-05:00BZ - I was everything you said in your comment. Da...BZ - I was everything you said in your comment. Dating is an interesting experience to say the least...lol!<BR/><BR/>T.C - Had to do what I had to do. My strength lies from being confident in myself and not settling.Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-13852833622969142752007-11-09T15:34:00.000-05:002007-11-09T15:34:00.000-05:00was his name...LOL...but i have been on a few of t...was his name...LOL...but i have been on a few of those myself...i am totally proud that you walked away from the situation still blu, and still open and willing to date others...still get out there...<BR/><BR/>well ((HHUUUUGGSSS)) my dear...it'll get betterT.a.c.Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03764565798496512732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-29795242473073660872007-11-07T12:54:00.000-05:002007-11-07T12:54:00.000-05:00Comedy or tragedy? If I didn't know you better, I...Comedy or tragedy? If I didn't know you better, I'd say the latter. But, since I do, I know you're laughing to yourself. Possibly mildly frustrated. But I know you're cracking up just like I am!!!! DAAAAAAMN!<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I know you're not letting this throw you off track, mama. You got way too much going for you.<BR/><BR/>HUGGS!!!BZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17132161394744989630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-13602798902408641152007-11-07T06:31:00.000-05:002007-11-07T06:31:00.000-05:00blah - LOL @ you like asses! He was on my turf fo...blah - LOL @ you like asses! He was on my turf for the first time and it is 2007, so I bought the first and LAST drink. Your advise about keeping him on reserve is the same as Mr. Slish's comment. I'll keep that in mind. I like your analogy about fishers of men. *lol*Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-75571722839935561652007-11-06T16:43:00.000-05:002007-11-06T16:43:00.000-05:00I like him!LOLHe sounds like an ass... but as I ha...I like him!<BR/><BR/>LOL<BR/><BR/>He sounds like an ass... but as I have said time and time again...I am secretly inlove with ass.<BR/><BR/>...budda, you bought the first drink? Not saying that you shouldn't...ever...but not on the first date.<BR/>Put him in what I like to call "reserve" and keep looking. Pull him out only when your hungry.<BR/>Women OUR age have no problem meeting men...we just need to make ourselves available... We need to be like the disciples... fishers of men...ummm, when we going fishin'?<BR/>**ummm, not that's not what Jesus meant by that? who knew, seems appropriate....just sayin'** LOLBlah Blah Blahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01705137082476839411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-67196854156356432652007-11-06T10:27:00.000-05:002007-11-06T10:27:00.000-05:00dnt - no, i guess he didn't. now that i've heard h...dnt - no, i guess he didn't. now that i've heard his views on the arts, i'd be hard pressed to let him read anything i've done.<BR/><BR/>hawa - LMAO! i dont even know how to adequately respond. you've eloquently stated things that so needed to be said. Dude is so happy NONE of my peeps were spectators to his shortcomings cause it would have been on an poppin with their reactions.Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-16703395238247103752007-11-06T10:23:00.000-05:002007-11-06T10:23:00.000-05:00Oh HAYELL no. V and I wanted to crash the party an...Oh <I>HAYELL</I> no. V and I wanted to crash the party and invite ourselves somewhere with y'all. I'm glad we didn't, 'cause V would have escorted that BOY outside -- <B>by the waistband of his underwear.</B><BR/><BR/>Even a man who accepts a drink shows himself a gentleman by buying the next round (and every dang round after that if more are to come.)<BR/><BR/>One great thing... you threw your rod in the sea to inspect the fish. And I love that. You had a chance to enjoy the process. That's the only reason I won't declare him a total waste of precious blu time.<BR/><BR/>Let's hope he doesn't become the example from your last post (who doesn't seem to know that calling, writing, or texting you just isn't an option.)<BR/><BR/>And dang. If you're missing perfect by "rough around the edges" ... he's missing perfect by a ditch the size of the Grand Canyon.<BR/><BR/>Isn't it funny how true colors bubble to the surface with amazing speed? True character can't be hidden. Somebody should tell him that his underwear are showing. LOLHawa Bondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17191367234186509296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-52221941617952804852007-11-06T10:22:00.000-05:002007-11-06T10:22:00.000-05:00Now, I understand. I think it was something in the...Now, I understand. I think it was something in the dating water this weekend. So, did he know he was on a date with a phenomenal writer before he said that stupid stuff?<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry you went through that.deepnthoughthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06068076303330217285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-43833719004475779082007-11-06T10:18:00.000-05:002007-11-06T10:18:00.000-05:00lyrically - it's so funny cause this bum said how ...lyrically - it's so funny cause this bum said how nice we looked together and that he should marry me...man, looks can truly be deceiving and there's no way in hell i'd marry this cat.Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-62411917658656794752007-11-06T09:51:00.000-05:002007-11-06T09:51:00.000-05:00Boys alleges to be all man, but his game is like S...Boys alleges to be all man, but his game is like Swiss cheese<BR/><BR/>LOL...that's a perfect loser, wow, this post is on "fiya"<BR/>He needs to keep moving without you in the pictureLyrically speakinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07695704757793935348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-56129921836298044182007-11-06T09:26:00.000-05:002007-11-06T09:26:00.000-05:00don - i was at a loss for how the person i'd come ...don - i was at a loss for how the person i'd come to know after initially meeing him, communicating via phone, txt, and email was NOT the person who I spent the weekend with. LOL @ what's he name.Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-85344353545750167912007-11-06T01:04:00.000-05:002007-11-06T01:04:00.000-05:00Makes you wonder if he was really the person typin...Makes you wonder if he was really the person typing on the keyboard. I mean, he couldn't have been THAT lost, could he?<BR/><BR/>What was his name again? lolDonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-81433108451378071662007-11-05T20:26:00.000-05:002007-11-05T20:26:00.000-05:00dc - it's all good. if i got nothing else out of t...dc - it's all good. if i got nothing else out of the weekend, i got some good laughs with my peeps! it's good to be back<BR/><BR/>terry - yeah, the old bait and switch trick. if i was a lesser a woman, i'd have taken things differently, but trust and believe, i spoke my piece and didn't let him off the hook. his loss!<BR/><BR/>rosemarie - such sage advice you administer.<BR/><BR/>mr slish - you're right, i shouldna bought the drinks, but at least it was a good learning curve for the rest of the weekend and trust me, i keep my money DEEP in my pockets. You're right, to a category he goes. zoom, zoom!<BR/><BR/>ms - in spite of his less than admirable traits, it was good to see what fish are in the pond. and you're right, a quiet evening alone can work wonders too!<BR/><BR/>wendy - i just about called him out each time he said something trite and then tried to down play it. i let him know he was dealing with a GROWN WOMAN, not some little girl.Blu Jewelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09850562981453356321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-26932314757683191112007-11-05T19:58:00.000-05:002007-11-05T19:58:00.000-05:00It's amazing that the pretenders out there think a...It's amazing that the pretenders out there think <I>a strong, independent, and assertive person, which was said to be a very attractive quality </I> wouldn't be able to see right through them. How you <B>get</B> me has always been how you <B>keep</B> me.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11407765712632358176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-72952032829000947002007-11-05T19:37:00.000-05:002007-11-05T19:37:00.000-05:00LOL, oh the joys of dating. Sometimes I'd much rat...LOL, oh the joys of dating. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes I'd much rather settle for a nice quite night home alone :)Ms. Confessionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12040573830472726532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-13245872299100578912007-11-05T18:46:00.000-05:002007-11-05T18:46:00.000-05:00Dude is self absorbed. Needs his ego stroked. Blue...Dude is self absorbed. Needs his ego stroked. Bluey NEVER EVER buy a man drinks on any date unless ya'll going steady. They take things like that as a weakness and will try and get more outta ya.<BR/><BR/>Don't kick him to the curb yet...Just put him in a category.Mr.Slishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00494177480657519038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-78681403536578675692007-11-05T15:19:00.000-05:002007-11-05T15:19:00.000-05:00Your life perspectives differ considerably. Thoug...Your life perspectives differ considerably. Though your paths may cross...it's an intersection only. Tell him to keep it rollin' in the other direction!Believerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09957900267165698972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-12890782387784119202007-11-05T14:59:00.000-05:002007-11-05T14:59:00.000-05:00Blu, in the car business I think they call that th...Blu, in the car business I think they call that the old bait and switch. Show 'em one thing, give 'em another.<BR/><BR/>It is amazing how what one thinks they see, is never what they really get. You're right, it's all a game and I know you refuse to be a participant. Of course it's not the end of the world - disappointing maybe - but you'll move on. As I have told you in the past, there's just too much to Blu for folks to pass up. Somebody one day will notice the brass ring that is you and grab it.<BR/><BR/>I gotta say though, I of all people know what a strong woman you are. But sugar, when we're together, you don't pay for shit. Ever!<BR/><BR/>And that's non-negotiable. <BR/><BR/>I can't believe he dropped that ball.Bananashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03176853633460981781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20538189.post-72520790216986896472007-11-05T14:31:00.000-05:002007-11-05T14:31:00.000-05:00ouch.but on a side note, I'm glad to see tht you'r...ouch.<BR/><BR/>but on a side note, I'm glad to see tht you're back to blogging.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry it wasn't all you had hoped for.<BR/><BR/>((hugs))dc_speakshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357394041753433558noreply@blogger.com