After talking to the boys about why they're still single, this is what they told me...
If women spent more time fixing their own problems instead of talking about other women, they'd be much better off.
Stop saying you want a man who has this or that, but you have nothing of substance to bring to the table.
If a man cheated on his wife with you, what makes you so special that he won't do it to you?
If a man does not take care of the children he already has, why would you have a child with him?
Tattooing a man's name on your neck/breast does not make you his wife/woman
It's okay be single; really
Sleeping with a man does not constitute a relationship
Know the rules before you play the game
Just because you have a good job, can cook, and f*ck like a porn star means nothing if there is no real depth to your personality
Seeing a man because he has a good job, lives in a nice home, and dresses well doesn't make him the Right Man; he's still just a man
Woman should not be afraid of being a woman, but instead embrace it, live it, and be proud of it
Stop being acting like you don't need a man when you're doing all kinds of things to get a man
Woman can't press a man about being on the down low if they're not forthcoming about their sexual history
If you suspect a man is gay; he just might be. Trust your instincts and walk away!
You can not fix a man
Learn to listen and let the man speak
There were many more things that were said, but I'll save them for another time